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I can’t get pregnant with a baby boy: tips and advice that can help you conceive a child

I am commonly sent emails from couples who believe they cannot conceive one gender over another, either because girls or boys run in their family, or because, in the past, they have only been able to conceive one specific gender. (For example, they have a house full of girls, but not boys.) Yesterday, I got an email from a very nice woman who basically asked me, “I have conceived three girls and I love them with all my heart, but this time, I really want to conceive a boy and give my husband a son. Is this possible? since I seem predisposed to conceiving girls? “

I replied that it is very possible. Using the proper techniques and tools, there is no reason why you cannot conceive either sex. If there are girls in your family or you think you can’t conceive a boy, there are a few things we can consider and change to greatly increase your chances of having a child. I will discuss these things below.

Why you may be predisposed to conceiving girls: Natural gender selection really comes down to one thing: which chromosome from the sperm reaches and fertilizes the egg first. If you keep getting pregnant with girls, the cards of fate could be dealing daughters or there could be a specific reason why the X sperm chromosomes (which produce girls) keep winning.

Basically, there are three variables that determine whether the X or Y chromosome wins: the moment of conception; the sexual positions you use to conceive and the pH / heartburn of the mother. In my experience, most women who have not been able to conceive a child tend to have a high PH. This scenario will greatly favor girls because male or Y sperm cannot survive in an acidic environment. Many times, I have seen women drastically change their PH and then be able to have a male baby. I will discuss these variables, one by one, below.

A look at the calendar for a baby boy design: I often have people email me asking what part of the month is best to conceive a child. When I mention the time of the month corresponding to a time in a woman’s fertility cycle, I sometimes find myself in a bit of confusion. I know it sounds very basic, and please bear with me if you already know, but what the calendar says doesn’t really matter. Ultimately, what matters is when you conceive relative to when you ovulate.

If you are trying to conceive a boy, it is vital that you do not try to conceive too early. As I mentioned before, male sperm are naturally weak. This is not something you did wrong. It’s just the characteristic that nature gave sperm Y to balance things out. To compensate for this, male sperm are also very fast, which you can use to your advantage.

To conceive a baby, you will need to conceive on the day of ovulation. And, if you’ve had trouble with this, ask yourself how well the ovulation prediction methods you’ve used in the past have worked. I strongly believe that techniques that require guessing (rhythm method, basal temperature and cervical mucus recording) should be abandoned for methods that explain it more precisely, such as predictors of ovulation from saliva or urine. (I prefer saliva to urine as you can test at any time and can reuse saliva models.)

Consider changing the sexual positions you have been using to conceive: If you remember that the child’s sperm is weak, you should use sexual positions that place the sperm as close to its intended destination as possible. This means a deeper penetration. Often I find that couples will try to conceive using the sexual positions that worked to get them pregnant the last time. This is fine if gender is not important to you, but if you want a boy, use the rear entry or the positions where the woman leans and raises her legs to allow a deeper deposit. Using a pillow under the pelvic area can also help.

It’s all about your heartburn: Of these three variables, I think this is the most important. I truly believe that if you have only conceived girls in the past, the first culprit to check is your PH. Male sperm will rapidly deteriorate and die if your PH is too high and checking this is as easy as obtaining PH test strips and then testing as directed. This will tell you very quickly if it is naturally acidic (and most women are, but women prone to conceiving girls generally are even more so).

Don’t be discouraged if this is true for you, because you can change your level with a little diligence. There are basically two ways to do it, but if your reading is very high and you want fast results, consider using both methods at the same time. You can follow an alkaline / low PH diet or shower with solutions intended to lower your PH. There are food lists and douche recipes that can summarize this. Baking soda is usually not enough. I know it is used very frequently, but if you use baking soda and then use the testers again, you will generally see that your reading did not change that much. What generally causes the most dramatic changes is using the douche and diet as a kind of punch one or two, used aggressively at the same time.

I know this may seem overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Use the tools available to you and approach this very methodically, tackling each variable until you are at the level or at the time you need to finally conceive your child.

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