The Art of Impressing Women: Proven Techniques on How to Attract and Impress Women

For us men, it is easy to think that women will not go after us unless we have a special talent. But as Erika Jong said, “Everyone has talent. What’s rare is the courage to follow talent to the dark place it leads to.”

It’s true: we all have talents. Think for a moment about a talent you may have. It could be anything:

You can play pool very well

You can speak a foreign language (although not fluently)

You know how to fix cars

You know some magic tricks

You can do very good imitations

Do you know how to play an instrument

You are really good at your job

You can cook a great plate of lasagna (or any dish, for that matter)

Don’t discount anything. In my audio series, “The Art of Impressing Women,” I detail some great ways to impress women, and one of the most important ways to do that is to not just have, but DISPLAY, a talent, no matter how fringe. to be. seem.

One of my favorite “man” movies is “The Tao of Steve”, which shows how Dex, a fat guy with no aspirations, easily turns into hot, beautiful women. How? Simply by following the 3 rules of the Tao. Are:

Eliminate your desires.

Do something excellent in his presence, thus proving your sexual worth.

Withdrawal, because as Heidegger said, “we pursue what is withdrawn from us.”

However, to put it more simply:

To be without desires

Be excellent

Leave

Dex’s talent was that he knew how to cook a really bad lobster dish; thus, it fulfilled the second rule. He knew one thing and he did it well. In the process, he followed the first and third rules of the Tao by not being too eager to impress the girl and get her phone number, and right after impressing the girl with his talent, he would leave. After cooking for her, he would say, “Well, I have to get ready for bed.” She would beg him not to leave, thus leaving herself and empowering Dex. And he would say, “Well, I guess I could stay a little longer.” And you can guess where it went from there …

So, like Dex, you would like to be excellent at something, all while “holding the cards” in a woman’s heart. Does that mean you have to know how to cook gourmet meals or build your own motorcycles from scratch (a la American Choppers)? Hell no! It simply means that you have to find within yourself that talent, that ability, that separates you from the rest of the male pack, and use it to your full advantage.

I will give you an example of how to do this. His name is Jared and he is not the most talented person in the world. Like Dex, he’s not exactly a man on a mission; plays a lot of video games and watches a lot of television. Yet somehow he is never lacking in female companionship. Why? Because when he goes out and meets girls, he does something that surprises them: he has taught himself (proving that great talent doesn’t have to come naturally) some really impressive card tricks. That is all. Jared is not an athlete, he is not a gourmet cook, he is not a guitarist. He just taught himself how to do some great magic tricks, and he does them so well that girls are naturally drawn to him. It works!

But does Jared go out of his way to show his ability? NO. Actually, what Jared does is act very calm, very natural, ask the girl many questions about herself (first rule of the Tao: have no desires), then wait until there is a pause in the conversation to ask: “Hey, do you see something great?” The girl will say yes and he will tease her: “Oh, what a pity. You’ll have to wait until later.” This is what I call “curiosity development” and it is a proven girl scout. Stimulate her curiosity, keep her at bay, and she will not only become more curious about your talent, but she will become more interested in you.

So Jared will guide the girl for a while, then say, “Good! Good! I’ll show you the stupid trick,” with a smile. This changes the game so that the girl has become the huntress, Jared the hunted, and he is able to “placate” her with his trick.

What Jared is doing, in essence, is following the first rule of the Tao for the T: Act truly desireless. He flips girls around to look like THEY who are full of desire, not him. By making them more desirous than him, he becomes more empowered and, of course, more attractive. It’s really brilliant.

On top of that, once Jared has impressed the girl, he makes sure to follow the third rule: WITHDRAWAL. He follows the girl for so long that she can’t help but be attracted to him. And just when he realizes that he has met a really cool and talented guy, he says, “I have to go” or “Hey, my friends are waiting for me.” By doing this, he makes sure the girl needs him more than he needs her. In the process, she will give him her phone number and ask for an appointment, in a desperate attempt to see him again. He expertly becomes the hunted, not the hunted, that’s a magic trick!

This is all part of the art of impressing women, an art that takes time to master, but once you’ve done it once, the next few times are easy. Naturally, it requires you to show the girl your talent in action, of course; Saying you’re a great cook and then not being able to accurately describe what you do, or not being able to cook for her at all, will only make you look silly and you’ll lose the girl faster than you say, “She left “.

But now, as a single man or a man looking for a new relationship, you have the opportunity to work on the skills you have, no matter how small, and do something truly magical to impress women. Look at your single time not as a loss, but as an opportunity, to become a truly unique guy.

And once you have discovered what your talent or talents are, make the most of them. Learn to lead girls along with your talents; like Jared, create opportunities out of them. If you know how to cook, ask the girl what her favorite dish is. Say that she responds: “Penne a la vodka.” You should respond, “Really? Wow, okay, because I make a great bowl of Penne vodka.” She will naturally want to see how you do it, so you can reply, “Yeah, it’s a shame I have to go, you won’t be able to try yet.” Don’t ask him to come over to your house to test your cooking; instead, have no wishes and walk away. Ask HER to come to your house or apartment to test her cooking. In that way, you will make SHE the desired one and YOU the empowered one. And when you “have the cards”, you can get whatever you want. ANYTHING.

It’s about learning your talents and knowing how to use them. Nothing less than an authority Benjamin Franklin said: “Don’t hide your talents. They were made for use. What is a sundial in the shade?”