10 tips to give a good blowjob

When we hear about low libido in a relationship, we usually assume it’s a women’s problem. The fact is that men account for about 30% of all cases of low libido. As a woman, you can still do something to overcome your lack of sex drive. Men (just like women) love oral sex. If you’re looking for ways to drive him wild in bed, here are some oral sex tips to get you started.

(1) Make it clean first

Whether giving or receiving oral sex, both of you have to be comfortable. This will not be possible if either of you has a strong odor. It’ll be nice if your man cleans up first. Better if you both take a sexy bath or shower together.

(2) Stay comfortable

If you’re not in a physically comfortable position to make love, you won’t be able to give him a good blowjob. Whether you’re standing or sitting, to give yourself plenty of room to move, you can sit on a stool or kneel on a pillow.

(3) Touch surrounding areas

You can give him a cat bath (i.e. use your mouth to kiss him all over) and/or use your hands to “bother” his inner thighs, testicles, and perineum (the area between the base of the genitals and the anus) which are all sensitive spots so that you gradually get in the mood. To increase the sensation, you can use your fingertips to tickle behind the testicles.

(4) Start licking it

You start by warming the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are some sensitive areas of the male genitalia for you to take note of. The tip or head of the genitalia is more sensitive than the shaft, especially the rim around the head. The bottom is more sensitive than the side, especially in the area near the tip (known as the frenulum). For it to be effective, you must concentrate your licking effort on these sensitive spots.

(5) You take his genitals to your mouth.

After playing with his head, you slide your mouth down the shaft while placing your hand at the base of his genitals (to form a ring around the lower end). This is to prevent you from choking if you accidentally eat too much of your “popsicle stick.” It should take between a third and a half of the axis. With your teeth hidden behind your lips, you press your lips against her shaft as you slide up and down the length of his semi-erect masculine hood. Do this slowly at times, savoring the pleasure of your action, and then speed up.

(6) Alternate between mouth and tongue action

From time to time, you use your tongue again to lick the tip and frenulum. You can experiment with the different types of licks in these two areas, probably by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give him more intense pleasure, you can also turn your neck left and right so it feels like your mouth is turning up and down on your penis.

(7) Using your hands

If you want to stimulate him more strongly during oral sex, you can do it with your hands. Using your hands also opens up the possibility of stimulating his testicles and perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus) while continuing to give him oral stimulation of his male organ.

(8) blowing hot and cold

Oral sex can be fun if you can bring it to life by playing with temperature and sensations. You take a sip of warm water. Then you wrap it around your mouth and swallow it. Next, you bring his penis into your mouth for 20 seconds. After this, you take a sip of cold water, swirl it around your mouth and swallow it. You resume the blowjob. The differences between hot and cold will feel great to him. An alternative way will be to put an ice cube in your mouth before taking your male organ. The warmth from your mouth combined with occasional flashes of chill will keep him on his toes.

(9) Do not neglect other areas

The scrotum and testicles are very sensitive areas that can drive him crazy when you lick his testicles and/or gently pull his scrotum down. Most men really enjoy it when their women stick their tongues in their anus.

(10) Taking it to the climax

You should never feel obligated to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It is your decision and it is determined by your comfort level with it. If he doesn’t want to swallow, ask him to give you a warning. He shouldn’t think less of you about your choice. You can keep stroking his orgasm with your hand.