In my work with victims of narcissistic abuse, most of the time I am asked the same question: “How do I know that I am not the narcissist?” When I asked my own therapist this question all those years ago, she replied, “If you were the narcissist, you wouldn’t be asking that question, because narcissists won’t see that the problem […]
The eternal question is: does a man’s appearance really matter when it comes to women? The average psychologist or dating doctor would tell you that women put other things before appearance and that you can get any woman you want without looking like Jude Law; but that just doesn’t sound good, does it? Most of the people who say those […]
One fall night in 1967, some friends and I, sophomores at North Texas State University, moved to the Campus Theater in the courthouse in Denton, Texas, to see the new Hollywood movie ‘Bonnie and Clyde.’ . That minor but highly popular play had its world premiere there a few days earlier, having been filmed in small towns around Denton and […]
The purpose of most religions is to make us “better” than we are today. The biblical premise is that all human beings have fatal flaws, are not good enough, and need great improvement and control of their “human nature.” Without this continuous overcoming of the evil self, growing towards a better type of person and change, one runs the risk […]
I find that as we get older, the things that initially attracted us to other people can sometimes change. For example, when I was younger, I valued the money and material possessions of my friends and the people I wanted to date. If a boy had a good car, that added a few more points to me. I didn’t consider […]
Traveling is spiritually rewarding and always educational; however, choosing where to travel and what to do is often frustrating and time-consuming. When you are traveling alone, this task can be more difficult or easier than if you are traveling with other people. When you travel with other people, there are suggestions and wishes that you may or may like. When […]
Think of the most successful gospel recording artists you know and you will find that they all have a good brand. Gospel artists like Kirk Franklin, Mary Mary, Yolanda Adams, and Donnie McClurkin are at the peak of their careers, but along the way, and even now, they continue to promote a brand that resonates with their audience. Yes, everyone […]
Since the breakup, you’ve been wanting and waiting for a sign from the universe suggesting that your ex-boyfriend wants you back, right? It’s understandable. You still love him and you feel like the breakup was a mistake. Unfortunately, your ex seems to have moved on without giving much thought to what you would like. But now you’ve heard from his […]
Guns and Roses, Metallica, Van Halen and Kiss are all hardcore rock and roll bands. They mean high energy and intensity. I need to tell you that Ross has the same philosophy of exercising. This book and DVD series is awesome. Ross must be a little crazy about the way he works. This boy defines the concept of “Work Ethics” […]
We are communicating with someone about something throughout the day. Communication is fundamental to our modern lives, isn’t it? Unfortunately, many things do not go well. Why? Because much of what we say and write is not very clear to the other party. We can cite several examples of communication problems, but most, if not all, boil down to lack […]
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